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"VOF Week 2 : (The humanity notion)."



As a girl even I am not much grown-up, I have came across many struggles in my life so far. There are a lot of things which I have faced and also I have heard from the society. Money, occupation and the look were the things which decided the place to a woman as a woman. Even it is not related with the topic I must say that, because of money and look I have fought with girls in my life to get the suitable place for me. Beyond these many people in my village had tried to stop my way because I am a girl. It’s their nonsense concept! I felt like that.
When I talk about the place of a woman, I faced to many problems that society rejected many things I did when I was in childhood. I don’t understand the reason for that is being a child or being a girl. I couldn’t realize what is the reason to act as a child as my wish. Everyone in my village started to tell me do not do that because you are a girl.
“Yes, really I am a girl who said I am not?”
“Why I can’t live in my life? What is the wrong in it?”
I asked myself. Everything which I did, refused by the society.
I liked to be socialized and work for others. So, I had to work with many people, I had to go many places for my works. But, society said that, as a girl stay in my position. I felt nervous about myself, because of losing the strength of working as my wish. I need my freedom. Why I can’t do whatever I need as my wish? What’s wrong going somewhere for my purpose which is serving for others? My parents also inspired by these warnings. They started to stop everything which I did for my happiness.
These all appeared as huge walls on my way for me. I was stocked with my parent’s words, but not because of other people’s words. It was because I wanted to be a good daughter to my parents in my family. Though, my mind said to stop doing such things which hurt to my parents, I didn’t stop those. I thought the final results of these things. I saw a bright sun which could shine my parent’s lives too.
Then I didn’t look back again from my position as a reaction of my villager’s words. I wanted to remove the concept which was in their minds about girl. They have kept the girls in a frame which limits their rights.
I stepped forward to my target. It’s true that I worked with many men day time. As well as I have played a responsible role in Cadet in my college, this could get millions of experiences to my life. Most of the time, I walked kilometers to my home alone at night after finishing my works.
However I am proud of myself today, because I have passed a marvelous path with many troubles. As a girl even many people wanted to stop me, I didn’t stopped. How many walls were in front of me whom tried to feel me bad?
Nevertheless, today I have and I believe my self more and more which can cope with struggles in my life. Therefore, as a woman I am proud that I got a chance to share myself with other women like me. If it could teach you something, it’s my pleasure.

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