http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2012/07/why-women-still-cant... a long but worthy article about how baby boomer women could have been wrong about trying to have it all, careers and having a family. why many of us did not have children trying to have a career. Look at this new way of thinking, that modern women perhaps should consider not wanting it all but choosing to put good energy into having a family and limiting how many hours you work. I don't agree with all of it but its interesting for a boomer to read and for a modern women just coming of age. Its all about sacrificing, making our choices, what we think is important at the time. Keep an open mind.